Before considering different ways in which selfishness may be rearing its ugly head within your marriage, let first me share a quick disclaimer about the title.

Honestly, I was quite proud of myself for such a clever title. Then, a few hours later I sadly realized that the saying was actually “sex, drugs, and rock n’ roll” (not “sex, money, and rock n’ roll). But, this misquoted title was still better than my other lame attempts…so I’m running with it.  😎

Now, on to selfishness within our marriages… Happy marriages don’t simply happen. Rather, they are the result of consistent effort and intentional decisions to nourish the relationship.

The Sexual Relationship

Healthy marriages are clearly based on so much more than just the physical relationship. However, that doesn’t mean that a mutually satisfying sexual relationship isn’t important.

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